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Dear TLS and Readers,First, thank you TLS for amazing content, updates, alerts, and for giving the lakewood community a platform to speak their minds and concerns.Lately, I’ve been seeing the same letter in different versions with the title “Shidduch Crisis”.I don’t understand. What makes anyone think that there’s a shidduch crisis in this day and age? There has ALWAYS been a shidduch crisis and that’s why it says “Kashe zivugo shel adam ke’krias yam suf”. A person’s ability to find a shidduch is as “hard” as the splitting of the sea. The Mefarshim ask: Was the splitting of the sea hard for Hashem? It can’t possibly be, as nothing is hard for Hashem to do. Same thing with shidduchim, if a person believes that just as it wasn’t hard for Hashem to split the sea for the Jewish nation to cross through, so too, it isn’t hard for Him to find you a shidduch. It’s all about perspective, and that perspective is called Emunah.Next time you face ANY crisis, remember, the only solution to that is connecting to Hashem, by simply believing in Him that He can do ANYTHING! No matter the obstacles or situation at hand.Hashem loves us all, and takes care of us so well, the least we can do is recognize His greatness and strength, and thank Him instead of crying about a crisis.Together we’ll strengthen in Emunah! That’s our neshek against the shidduch crisis and all possible crises there are.Thank you for reading my letter!From a Which I had enjoyed going to, it has developed into the site you have today containing hundreds of places in over ten different communities across America.Current StructureShidduchShuk.com, has an average of 150 daily sessions, over 75 pages, and over 325 shidduch place ideas and resources with up-to-date content. It is presented in a very easy-to-navigate manner.We have a shidduch resource list where bochurim can find helpful resources for shidduchim. The site also has many other useful features like pegisha alerts, pre-pegisha preparation help, shadchanim contact info, and proposal ideas.Website speed is essential to us as this makes the user experience as best as possible.GrowthOur site has experienced tremendous growth, both in the number of visits and the amount of content, over a relatively small period of time. This is a testament to the user experience and efficiency built into the core structure of our site.Our content has been updated constantly over the last two years. We have grown from just 25 shidduch places to over 325!Viewership and users have also grown dramatically. We have grown from just 40 visits in our first month to over 150 daily users and growing.Shidduchshuk.com is owned and operated by Lakewood Websites LLC and Shmuel Katz. Questions and comments can be submitted by text to 732-200-4900.

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The Shidduch Shuk (shidduchshuk.com) is a popular directory of businesses, attractions, helpful resources, and information created for yeshiva singles to aid them in planning and preparing for their date. This includes shidduch places, resources, forums, gemachim, shadchanim (Jewish matchmakers), and much more. All information is presented clearly and conveniently, focusing on the overall user experience. Information on our site is “crowd-sourced”.The main part of our site is our directory of places and relevant information which yeshiva bochurim (or whoever is planning your date) can research when they plan their date itinerary. Each location is presented with pictures, contact information, parking options, and description. This information is culled from the personal experiences of countless present and past yeshiva bochurim in the parsha. We provide shidduch places for almost every frum (orthodox) community in the United States in a very easy-to-use format. There are also different lists depending on what type of outing the couple is planning to go on.Why the need?Not so long ago, when I was in shidduchim, I can remember just how hard the shidduch process was – before and after each date. Besides the whole “shadchan – yes and no resume hassle”, planning and figuring out each date was a real nightmare. This only added to the stress naturally present from being in shidduchim.After getting engaged, I realized I had to do something that would make it easier for bochurim in shidduchim, especially those who don’t have siblings or friends they feel comfortable talking to. In addition to others I spoke to, I felt that the existing websites available were lackluster when it came to the average BMG guy.Together with a couple of other guys(who shall remain nameless for now), I started a small website called koshershidduchinfo.com which eventually turned into ShidduchShuk.com. Starting with just a few places. Shidduch alerts can simplify this process and pave the way for meaningful connections. Understanding Shidduch Alerts What Are Shidduch Alerts? Shidduch alerts are

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Workarounds discussed. R’ Shmuel Fuerst-Shidduchim: resume’, tehillim, starting age, hashgacha pratis, same names, geirun/bas nidda, brothers. Trigger warning includes inspirational stories that those who have shidduch challenges may not appreciate. When do you start davening for a shidduch (parents/children)? Being mvater is very important. Should you be mshadech with geirim, child of non-frum, or someone with OTD siblings? Rabbi Netanel Wiederblank-Morality and Mitzvos Are there any limitations on what HKBH can do (eg violate the pythagorean theorem?). How do we deal with mitzvot we find morally objectionable? R’ Zev Smith-“Shomea Konah” When It Doesn’t Work? Is shomea koneh based on hearing with intent to listen or is it as if you actual said the worlds. Specific practical examples analyzed. Rabbi Daniel Z. Feldman-Intro to Tefilah and Zmanim One should be consistent in defining the end of the day for mincha/maariv purposes. We allow early shabbat to seemingly violate that rule due to tosefet shabbat. Reasons and implications discussed. Please direct any informal comments to [email protected]. Boy decided the shidduch is not for him. He decided he wanted to speak to the girl personally since they had already met so many times. He started by mentioning her positive qualities and then he said he has something very serious to discuss. To which the girl said “I cant believe i am about to get engaged.”P.S. he was won over and they are happily married with a couple of kids!!I did not hear this story firsthand, but i think its true. February 9, 2009 7:14 am at 7:14 am #1226141 Where does being called the wrong name on first date rank? February 9, 2009 11:27 am at 11:27 am #1226142 A friend of mine drove down a flight of stairs on a dare (and it was the girl’s 1st ever date)How you ask? It was Yerushalayim on one of the streets which turn into a staircase at the end. This one did not have a barrier February 9, 2009 1:21 pm at 1:21 pm #1226143 hahahaha, these are a riot!i have another one:(i heard it happenedin lakewood), being that most of the yeshiva boys there dont own their own car, the rent-a-car does great business….so this girl gets picked up on her first date, and as they’re driving she pulls down the mirror- and there’s writing on it that says WILL U MARRY ME? from the guy who last rented that car!!!! he forgot to wipe it off, and now this girl totaly freaked and stammered “i-i-i-im not ready for that” until they cleared it all up! February 9, 2009 1:22 pm at 1:22 pm #1226144 anonymouse1079 and anonymouse1079, those are both sooo Embarrassing !!!! February 9, 2009 4:01 pm at 4:01 pm #1226145 I guess this vaguely falls under a “shidduch story”I went out with close to

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Several leading American Roshei Yeshivos have departed to Eretz Yisrael for an historic summit tomorrow in Bnei Brak.Rav Moshe Hillel Hirsch Shlita of Yeshivas Slabodka in Bnei Brak, is spearheading the initiative and hosting the talks. His wife, Rebbetzin Avigayil, is the daughter of Rav Mordechai Shulman Zatzal, one of the previous Roshei Yeshivah of Slabodka in Bnei Brak. After the passing of his father-in-law, R’ Moshe Hillel Shlita was appointed as one of the Rosh Yeshivos in Slabodka, alongside R’ Dov Landau Shlita.Over the course of the last several weeks it was decided that several Roshei Yeshivos would travel to meet in Bnei Brak in an attempt to make binding changes to the yeshiva system in America; and in principle, to send bochurim at a younger age to Eretz Yisroel so they can start shidduchim earlier, not at the current 23-24 age average. This will enable many more bochurim to start shidduchim at a younger age thereby alleviating and minimizing the growing age gap chasm for our daughters.They have also established that the talks will include the potential abolishment or limits of “the freezer” in all American post-Eretz Yisroel yeshivos.The summit is being heralded as groundbreaking and a watershed moment. Askanim and the stakeholders in the summit’s development are hopeful this will be a genuine start for a resolution to the unsustainable, unchecked, and self-inflicted tragedy unfolding in our kehillos. As TLS has been reporting on extensively for years and increasingly in recent months, the tragic shidduch situation is spiraling further and further out of control. A broadening consensus on one of the primary sources of the crisis has been the “age gap” calamity.This foundational factor is driven, by and large, by our litvish yeshiva bochurim heading to Eretz Yisroel at a much later age than in years prior, thus widening and exacerbating an already asymmetrical and broken system, causing hundreds and thousands of our own local girls to remain single and struggling to find their zivugos. TLS has learned from a recent exhaustive and lengthy research study conducted by a cohort of dedicated shadchanim and askanim, both the numbers of the litvish single boys and girls currently in shidduchim in Lakewood alone, and the disparate number of girls vs boys is staggering – A nearly 3 to 1 ratio.(This does not account for the multitude of neighboring and out-of-town communities where the problem is reportedly even greater and more prevalent.)In a sharply worded letter from the gedolim in Eretz Yisroel more than 10 years ago from R’ Yosef Shalom Elyashiv, R’ Aharon Leib Sheinman, R’ Shmuel Auerbach and R’ Chaim Kanievsky to American Roshei Yeshivos they wrote that the shidduch crisis is disproportionally affecting the litvish communities in the United States, while pointing out that such a systematic problem does not exist in the litvish communities in Eretz Yisroel nor in the chasidish communities in the United States.At a recent convention, Rav Elya Ber Wachtfogel Shlita made it very clear that although everyone has an ultimate bashert, we

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You a serious question, she got all nervous like what does he want and he’s like ok………when you brush your teeth, do you squeeze the toothpaste from the bottom or the middle of the tube? She answered without missing a beat ” I don’t brush my teeth” He cracked up and proposed on the spot February 9, 2009 9:19 pm at 9:19 pm #1226148 A couple once went on a shidduch, and who did they see on the other side of the room? The girl’s really close friend! As they were walking in, the friend happened to lift her head! So they both saw each other=) February 9, 2009 9:29 pm at 9:29 pm #1226149 a girl was taken out to Windows On the World. They had a rug at the entrance with “WOW” on it… for conversation’s sake, the boy comments and says: “I wonder what that stands for.” The girl, thinking “this guy is really dumb” tells him “yeah- it stands for ‘MOM’, they got it one mother’s day…” and the boy nodded politely and kept on walkin…a girl was walking with her date and suddenly her very very high heel gets stuck in the metal grate in the street. By the time she yanked it out (and by the time the boy even noticed she wasn’t at his side), it broke…. picture the sceneA few weeks later this boy gets a call, his best friend is engaged. To who? The girl he lied to and said he was his friend…these were either heard from the person on the date or read in an article- enjoy February 9, 2009 9:53 pm at 9:53 pm #1226150 What do you do when you’re on a d8 and ya just happen to bump into a few girls you know, doing the. Shidduch alerts can simplify this process and pave the way for meaningful connections. Understanding Shidduch Alerts What Are Shidduch Alerts? Shidduch alerts are

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The restaurant, and he didn’t want to be seen with me! Stupid and ever-accommodating me, I waited for him outside the back door (yes, he did show up), instead of reading him the riot act for treating me so disrespectfully.Another date was a very nice person, who had called me up, we had a very pleasant conversation, which he ended by telling me he would pick me up at 5 PM “after dinner.”On the appointed day, I dressed nicely, and when he picked me up, he asked me if I was milchig or fleishig. I told him I was neither. Puzzled, he asked me what I had eaten for dinner, and I told him the truth. Nothing. So he said, “But I thought I told you I was picking you up at 5PM after dinner!” And I sweetly replied, “That’s true. You did. But neither you nor anyone else can tell me when to feel hungry. I generally do not eat dinner at 4 PM!” He realized immediately how he had come across and took me out for pizza (fine by me, I am not the greedy type). During dinner, he admitted that he hadn’t wanted to take me anywhere to eat until he saw if I would be worth it. I have had some really interesting shidduch dates. B”H that is not how I met my husband. February 10, 2009 6:10 am at 6:10 am #1226160 oomis1105: yikes abt the blind date!!! February 10, 2009 6:12 am at 6:12 am #1226161 February 10, 2009 7:11 am at 7:11 am #1226162 Just had to post this story. You may have heard this….Nice girl w/ nice taste is out on a date. Well, noone touches the flusher thing in restaurant restrooms, you do the foot thing. Well, her pretty little shoe